A decade ago, I lived in a tiny wood frame house in a charming old neighborhood where time seemed to stand still: neighbors all knew each other, children rode their bikes in the street, and the baseball and football fields, elementary school and three churches were within a 5-minute walk. My house was built in 1920 on a pier-and-beam frame and had hardwood floors and other charming old-house features. It was really fun to dress the old girl up for the holidays, with Christmas being the uber-holiday.
Some of the table-setting tricks I’ve learned over the years are illustrated by the photos below. They were taken before a special holiday dinner in 2006 when my parents met my inlaws-to-be for the first time.
Mix your glassware and china – different sizes, styles and colors can look great together. Below I have a set of white china Christmas dishes, Waterford champagne glasses, magenta Italian crystal water glasses, and inexpensive crystal wine glasses, and somehow, it all works.
Dress up your table with inexpensive chargers.
Use place cards to design the optimum seating arrangements; they also make people feel special.
Embrace whimsy – the place card holders on this holiday table are a mix of tiny characters, and there’s a variety of Christmas-themed salt and pepper shakers, including a pair of dogs wearing Christmas wreaths.
Make things – the centerpiece was assembled from handmade bows, pine cones from my yard, faux greenery, and a few silk flowers and decorative berries from Hobby Lobby.
Use ribbons in place of napkin rings for a soft, elegant-yet-fun look.
“Black Friday” for me means steering clear of the crowds and limiting my shopping to finding the perfect Christmas tree.
But I’m a huge fan of “Small Business Saturday“, which takes place today for the 6th time. Even though it was started by a huge business, American Express, Small Business Saturday is a great way to remind us that when we “buy local”, we support our own communities and neighbors. Click here for a short video about Small Business Saturday from Amex.
I’m headed out to the local Farmer’s Market to find fresh produce, flowers and hand-crafted gifts. And then I’ll pop into the resale shop run by Tomball Emergency Assistance Ministries (T.E.A.M.) to see what goodies they have in store.
The best thing about frequenting the local Mom-and-Pop stores is the relationships that develop with the proprietors.
The lady who sells homemade pet treats at the Farmer’s Market pulls out the cat treats for me as soon as she sees me approaching. My cat demands the dried whitefish that K-9 Campus Cafe makes especially for her.
The great folks at Jane and John Dough Bakery know my son *needs* one of their fresh-baked pretzels and a Mexican Coke. And they always ask about his Eagle Scout project and upcoming concerts.
The owner of Smitty’s Meat Market genuinely wants to know if you like their in-house smoked sausage, and what other products they should carry to complement the variety of smoked meats they offer.
The farmer’s market vendors are all super-friendly and love to talk with customers. My son and I visit almost every Saturday, enjoying the experience as much as the goods that we buy.
A farmer’s market evokes that old-time, small-town, we’re-all-in-this-together feeling.
Shopping at the charity resale shop is a great way to use your retail dollars to help your own community. The money they raise goes directly to assisting local families in need.
For me, decorating the Thanksgiving table is a real pleasure. I like starting from a blank slate and creating a sense of bountiful harvest and plenty in my dining room. I think about Thanksgivings past, going way back to childhood holidays spent at my grandmother’s house in Sweetwater, Texas.
Sneaking bits of mahogany-roasted turkey skin, sitting overlong at the table telling stories that have been told before but deserve the retelling, playing touch football in the back yard to work off the third piece of pie…Thanksgiving is redolent with tradition and memories.
I love Thanksgiving and that feeling of connectedness to others while sharing a meal and reflecting on our blessings. Another blogger described the special feeling of setting the Thanksgiving table perfectly in her post, Setting the Holiday Table.
About table-setting – I’ve learned over the years (the hard way) not to wait until Turkey Day to figure out the seating, set the table and do the decorating. The first step is to get the table(s) and chairs figured out. This year’s tally is only 11, so we can squeeze in at one table, dragging in chairs from the breakfast room and adding a card table at the end. This was done on Monday.
Now it’s Wednesday morning, and the table-setting is well underway, minus the glasses and silverware.
Don’t be shocked – I’m using paper plates (again) this year. They look just fine atop gold chargers and paired with cloth napkins – and the clean-up process is accelerated exponentially. I love my china sets but using paper plates some years makes it more about the meal and less about the aftermath. I like to think of the mix of paper plates with cloth napkins and crystal candlesticks as the “business casual” of table settings.
The turkey is brining, the assignments for side dishes have been distributed, and the next step is to make the dressing. Did I say I love Thanksgiving?
We have a bay tree at Glover Gardens that’s growing like gangbusters and provides a plethora of bay leaves – way-way-way more than we need. So many that we can use them as table decorations or place cards.
A bay leaf makes a beautiful place card.
Use a sharpie to write names on leaves.
I saw an article in Good Housekeeping a few years ago which gave me another idea for using our excess bay leaves. Paper leaves were adorned with “thankful for” messages and attached to pears with florists’ wire to create a beautiful, unique and inexpensive centerpiece.
We tried it out using sharpies to convey our gratitude on bay leaves and found that it not only looked great, but was a fun and even meaningful activity. Teen-aged cousins crowded around the kitchen island having a great time talking about what they were grateful for while they got to work attaching their bay leaves to pears. It was a wonderful Night Before Thanksgiving family bonding experience.
When they’re done, you can arrange the “Thankful For” pears in a bowl or platter, or simply scatter them down your Thanksgiving table.
We had a bigger Thanksgiving last year with the arrival of numerous relatives from New Mexico, and everyone really enjoyed making their “Thankful For” leaves. We did it on Thanksgiving Day as family members arrived.
We ended up with so many that we added a new step, the creation of a “Thankful For” / Happy Thanksgiving tree. This turned out to be a great group activity during the appetizer hour, when the turkeys were resting and then being carved.
We found ourselves gathered around the tree throughout the afternoon and evening, reading about each other’s gratitude and having meaningful conversations.
We’re going to do the “Thankful For” tree again this year. What are you thankful for?
Returning home from a business trip on a weekday in time for dinner presents a dilemma: I don’t want to cook, and don’t want to eat out again after days and days of it.
Last Friday was just such a day; I was returning home from 4 days of meetings in San Antonio and 4 nights of (very good) restaurant dinners. Our remaining millennial in the household was out with a friend, so the Grill-Meister and I were empty-nesters. Here’s our solution: quick Sausage and Pepper Dogs for Two. With a gas grill that heats quickly and no prep except for slicing the peppers and onions, we had dinner put together in less than a half hour.
Is it bad that I considered the grilled onions and peppers as the vegetable side dish and didn’t make anything else?
1/2 medium yellow onion, thickly sliced
1 large, 2 medium or several small bell peppers, sliced
1 tbsp good-quality balsamic vinegar
1 tbsp olive oil
1/2 tsp red pepper flakes
1 tbsp of fresh basil, parsley ororegano, chopped, or 1 tsp of dried
Salt and freshly ground pepper
4 or more sausage links of your choice (we love jalapeño sausage)
4 or more hotdog-sized buns or rolls (we like bollilo rolls from our local grocery store)
Heat the grill on high. Spray a grilling basket with cooking spray and put it on the grill to get hot. In a medium bowl, combine the balsamic vinegar, olive oil, red pepper flakes, fresh or dried herb of your choice, and a generous amount of freshly ground pepper. Wrap the rolls or buns in foil.
Grill the onions and peppers in the grilling basket and the sausages directly on the grill. Add the foil package with the buns in the last few minutes of grilling time. The vegetables are done when they are soft and slightly blackened; remove them from the grill and add them to the bowl with the vinegar and olive oil, tossing to coat.
Serve each grilled sausage topped with the grilled vegetables on a bun.
You may or may not want condiments with the Sausage and Pepper Dogs. The Grill-Meister forgoes them, but I like the extra kick from a little horseradish mustard. Yum!
This time of year brings welcome visits from far-away family, but we don’t always have time to make a big production out of special dinners.
We recently had a visiting relative, Uncle Jerry from Seattle, and wanted to serve him a simple but elegant meal.
We settled on filet mignon, baked potatoes and salad for the menu, classic and simple dishes that are easy to make but still make you feel like you’re getting a treat. Dessert was scones and slices of a marvelous pear tart from a local bakery. Easy-peasy.
Spending a half hour decorating the table made all the difference, along with the cloth napkins and bay leaf place cards. Uncle Jerry validated the strategy when he arrived: “Wow, this is fancy!” (We didn’t tell him that it was quick ‘n easy.)
A bay leaf makes a beautiful place card.
Our local farmer’s market has a wonderful flower vendor who uses creative combinations of flowers and vegetables.
The dining room gussies up quickly.
Two scones and two slices of pear tart from a local baker was plenty of dessert.
It was really nice to host Uncle Jerry and make him feel special without spending hours in the kitchen on what was an absolutely gorgeous fall day (see my recently posted ePostcard for the visuals). It’s amazing how setting a beautiful table creates a festive mood.