“A cat has absolute emotional honesty: human beings, for one reason or another, may hide their feelings, but a cat does not.” — Ernest Hemingway
Fiona Glover, age 15 (78 in cat years), leapt suddenly across the rainbow bridge on October 23, 2025. Mourning her and wishing her joy in the kitty afterlife are her devoted parents, Tom and Kim Glover; her human brothers, Brandon Glover and Thomas Wenglinski; and her adopted feline sibling, Godfrey Glover. Also grieving are numerous friends and family members who always wished Fiona would acknowledge them.
Fiona’s story began humbly. A frightened, feral, dehydrated, and undernourished but beautiful calico kitten, she was found huddled in the hood of a car at a neighborhood mechanic shop. The kindhearted shop owners reached out to the Glover family, who were then desperately searching for their missing cat, Scout, via numerous flyers across a 5-mile radius. “This isn’t the cat on your poster,” they said, “But it’s a scared, abandoned kitten who needs a home”. Kim and Thomas went to meet her, and the rest was history.
That frail rescue kitten weighed less than 2 lbs. but had an enormous personality and the confidence of a lioness. Christened “Fiona” because she reminded the family of the bad-ass female character in the TV show Burn Notice, she immediately began to rule Glover Gardens with a velvet paw. Fiona wasn’t a fan when her adopted brother, Godfrey, a sweet and simple tuxedo cat, joined the family when she was 8 months old (15 in cat years). Throughout their relationship, she took great pleasure in reminding him who was boss. She regularly commandeered his breakfast and thrilled at the chance to chase or torment him, her eyes alight with mischief and her tail as puffy as a feather duster.
Fiona loved to join Kim and Tom and whoever happened to be visiting during their outdoor rituals at the Tree House known as “Happy Coffee” or “Happy Cocktail,” (depending on the time of day). She sat and watched the birds or went into red alert mode when mysterious sounds disturbed her serenity or aroused her curiosity.
Fiona relished the time she spent outside in her backyard kingdom, and she owned every bit of it.
Ever curious, Fiona’s stealthy escapes outside the perimeter by leaping over the fence inspired her Dad, Tom, to engineer a “cat-tainment” system—three feet of chicken wire atop the six-foot fence enclosing her one-acre domain. Her escape artist nature was the least popular of her traits within the family. Despite these extreme measures, she still sometimes found ways to break out and explore the world outside the back yard. For this reason, Fiona wore a “Tab Cat” tracking necklace 24/7 so that her family could find her and keep her safe.
A master communicator, Fiona conveyed her desires with precision: breakfast (on time), chin scratches, admittance to the master bedroom, her God-given right to outside time in the back yard, or salmon-flavored treats for coming inside when she was called. She was emotional and expressive and wielded sarcasm like a superpower. When the litter box needed attention, she’d stand cockily beside it and look up, as if to say, “Are you proud of this? Planning to do something about it?” And when she meowed at the back door, only to sprint toward the Tree House instead of ambling inside for her usual treat—well, that was her gentle reminder that it was time for everyone to relax at the Happy Place (the Tree House). Rituals were important to her.
Fiona made a sport out of relaxing, showing everyone how it should be done, with one’s whole heart and one’s limbs loose.
Fiona loved to chill out near Mom and Dad, often in their home offices, or Kim’s studio where she writes blog posts (and obituaries).
But she also knew how to combine R&R with circumspection and watchfulness, as evidenced by the flick of her tail in these gifs (click the play buttons).
One of the calmest and most unflappable beings ever to walk the earth, Fiona’s Kryptonite was thunderstorms. Perhaps a PTSD reaction from her feral days as a kitten, she was desperately afraid of storms and skedaddled under the couch at the first crack of thunder and remained there in safety until the last raindrop fell.
Fiona had strong feelings about her humans’ travel habits — specifically, that she disapproved. Whenever suitcases appeared, both she and Godfrey would climb inside as if to sabotage the trip, glaring in solidarity. It was their unmistakable message: “You’re not going anywhere without us.”
In their own way, Fiona and Godfrey achieved a level of acceptance and sometimes even fondness over the years—a grudging respect between two very different spirits. On rare, peaceable afternoons, they could be found stretched out in the same patch of sunlight, watching birds together from the window, or just napping in Mom’s studio.
It was this surprising truce that Kim once celebrated in a photo challenge titled “Variations on a Theme: Because There Aren’t Enough Cat Pictures in the World.”
sleepy by sunlight, Fiona sits, and waits, and contemplates her fate
“I’m a cat goddess, because I’m a calico — destined for greatness!”
While she had too much class to voice it, Fiona knew she was beautiful and how to hold a pose that captured her personality. She almost commanded her humans to photograph her, and the results didn’t disappoint.
She was especially amused by her “art imitates life” (or is it “life imitating art”?) photo shoots with cat images.
Though Fiona’s independence often overshadowed her affection, to those who knew her best, she was one of the most human cats imaginable—opinionated, curmudgeonly in the most lovable way, and never far from where the action was. She might have pretended indifference to anyone not named Kim or Tom Glover, but she never wanted to be more than ten feet from her people. Her presence was always felt, and her meow, though sometimes demanding, was always heard and respected.
“I have felt cats rubbing their faces against mine and touching my cheek with claws carefully sheathed. These things, to me, are expressions of love.” — James Herriot
Fiona embodied that quiet, unspoken love completely — not showy or sentimental, but deeply genuine. She could be aloof one moment and tender the next, her head-bumps and watchful nearness saying everything that needed saying.As Kim said, She was, quite simply, ours—and we were lucky to be hers.
No formal service was held, but Fiona’s humans toasted her life with glasses of Hunnicutt Chardonnayfrom a recent Napa trip, sharing Amazing Fiona Stories through laughter and tears. These stories will continue for the rest of their days. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you give that next stray cat you see a pat in Fiona’s honor and consider a rescue if you adopt a fur baby.
Yes, three children, four cats, and we had a dog until June. Imagine a queen size bed with all of the aforementioned in it! Plus me!
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I’m so sorry that Fiona is gone, but she seems to have had a great life thank to you. We’ve had two cats and wept buckets over both of them. Lovely obituary which does her proud. I laughed at this bit “Also grieving are numerous friends and family members who always wished Fiona would acknowledge them.” So typical! I remember one of the times my parents looked after Purdy, our first cat, when we were away. Mum was so pleased they had finally made friends – until her next visit when Purdy took one look, turned her back and stalked off down the hall.
Wow, Purdy and Fiona sound like they were cut from the same cloth. Your story made me laugh out loud. Thank you so much for the close read, Anabel, and for your comments.
Hello Darryl, thank you so much for your words of empathy and affirmation. I’m glad you appreciated the tribute, and I’ll confess that it was incredibly cathartic to write this long-form obituary. It took a couple of weeks and I sifted through memories and pictures, and those intentional actions brought a lot of comfort and some distance from the shock of her sudden death. It might seem silly to spend so much time lamenting a pet, but she was with me for 25% of my life. I can smile now as I think of her; I’m writing this while on the back patio in the waning light after work, and if she was still with us, she’d be about 10 feet away, lounging but alert. Or rubbing against my ankles and then heading off to the tree house to lead the way for Happy Cocktail.
Thanks again for your comments.
They hold space in our hearts forever, each and every one. Thank you for taking care of her.❤️
They do!!! Do you have furry family members?
Yes. Right now we have four cats.🐈⬛🐈🐈⬛🐈
What richness. And children, too, right? A full house. Growing up with cats is special.
Yes, three children, four cats, and we had a dog until June. Imagine a queen size bed with all of the aforementioned in it! Plus me!
I CAN imagine it and it sounds wonderful.
I’m so sorry that Fiona is gone, but she seems to have had a great life thank to you. We’ve had two cats and wept buckets over both of them. Lovely obituary which does her proud. I laughed at this bit “Also grieving are numerous friends and family members who always wished Fiona would acknowledge them.” So typical! I remember one of the times my parents looked after Purdy, our first cat, when we were away. Mum was so pleased they had finally made friends – until her next visit when Purdy took one look, turned her back and stalked off down the hall.
Wow, Purdy and Fiona sound like they were cut from the same cloth. Your story made me laugh out loud. Thank you so much for the close read, Anabel, and for your comments.
Ohhhh. Ever so sorry, Kim. It’s always a heartbreak.
But then we know cats have 9 lives and she will come back to another home.
Miaou…
Thank you! And wherever she lands, she’ll find admirers.
Im sorry for your loss. What an amazing tribute to a beloved pet 🥲
Hello Darryl, thank you so much for your words of empathy and affirmation. I’m glad you appreciated the tribute, and I’ll confess that it was incredibly cathartic to write this long-form obituary. It took a couple of weeks and I sifted through memories and pictures, and those intentional actions brought a lot of comfort and some distance from the shock of her sudden death. It might seem silly to spend so much time lamenting a pet, but she was with me for 25% of my life. I can smile now as I think of her; I’m writing this while on the back patio in the waning light after work, and if she was still with us, she’d be about 10 feet away, lounging but alert. Or rubbing against my ankles and then heading off to the tree house to lead the way for Happy Cocktail.
Thanks again for your comments.